{"id":427,"date":"2023-12-29T01:35:57","date_gmt":"2023-12-28T14:35:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.complicatednoise.com\/?p=427"},"modified":"2023-12-29T01:35:57","modified_gmt":"2023-12-28T14:35:57","slug":"and-so-this-is-the-obligatory-end-of-year-post","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bbeenn.com\/blog\/and-so-this-is-the-obligatory-end-of-year-post\/","title":{"rendered":"And so, this is the obligatory end-of-year post&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t really say much here anymore. You can <a href=\"https:\/\/mastodon.social\/@ComplicatedNoise\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">catch my random ramblings on Mastodon though<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I&#8217;ve learned that by dropping my regular blog postings and the discontinuation of my podcast that I really like this&#8230; solitude. Something about the lock-downs and isolation really helped carve that into a mainstay in my life. When I&#8217;m not working, I just want to be left to my own devices (literally).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, I do miss the online communities I was a part of though. Sometimes, I just want to sit and chat with people about random things, but after five minutes of that, I realise that it probably wasn&#8217;t a great idea. That&#8217;s just me though.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My husband and I are still living apart, but that is going to change in 2024. The construction of our house started in October and it&#8217;s progressing very quickly. We&#8217;ve got a roof, some bricked walls, and a big wooden frame up at the moment. It&#8217;s looking pretty good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I don&#8217;t want to type too much here so I won&#8217;t. I feel like there&#8217;s so much I&#8217;ve said on Mastodon. However, I&#8217;m happy to give you bullet points of my highs and lows of this year:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I&#8217;m starting to feel like an old gay man. Gray hair is sprouting up everywhere and no one knows I exist. Is that such a bad thing though?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>My apartment was broken into while I was home but miraculously, nothing was stolen. The thief got away with my wallet, but later in the day, I got it back with nothing missing.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m getting a lot more experience in different areas of my work which is nice.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Red, the dachshund, was added to my family. I never knew a dog could love fruit and vegetables so much. He was a hero when my apartment got broken into.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m steadily gaining more weight. I should really fix that, shouldn&#8217;t I?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I think I&#8217;ve been with my current partner for about 10 years now.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>He&#8217;s an Australian citizen now.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I miss having him take care of me.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think that&#8217;s about it. I can&#8217;t make promises about 2024. I&#8217;m afraid to, really. There are quite a few nice things happening though. I guess all I can do is to do my best, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s like 1:35 am almost. I should get to bed. I already don&#8217;t get enough sleep. Good night folks, and hope your 2024 is pretty fucking awesome.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t really say much here anymore. You can catch my random ramblings on Mastodon though. I&#8217;ve learned that by dropping my regular blog postings and the discontinuation of my podcast that I really like this&#8230; solitude. 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